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Faithful Christianity Begins in the Home

 

 Faithful Christianity begins in the home. One man and one woman in marriage, having children, raising them in the nurture and admonition of the Lord, parenting by God's promises, believing that He has graciously covenanted with households for their good, seeking Him in faith and service. If the home is a witness of the truth and love of God, it will speak to everyone around them.


In our little church that I pastor, we have large families who believe this, striving to seek first God's kingdom and righteousness in all of life, for God's glory and their good. We do this together in true Christian fellowship and community. We are sinners, that is true, but we know the grace of God in Jesus Christ, that His Word is Truth, and that His promises for us and our children are sure.

Too much of Christianity today in our nation, and here in the South, is in name only. This is to say, it is not much removed from taking the Lord's name in vain. It is a relic some haven't quite yet discarded, though many of the younger folk my age have. The sexual, national, political, medical, educational, etc., confusion, insanity, and angst we see today, occurs when fathers cease being faithful to God, firm as a rock for the good of their families. Too often today, we have weak men, and hard women, but we need strong, masculine men, and tender, nurturing, feminine women, doing what God designed each of us to do as His image bearers. This glorifies God, and allows us to enjoy Him and His people that He has created. When more and more families do this, communities thrive.

But this requires saying the hard things that nobody wants to hear, that offends others. It requires speaking against sin, and speaking for righteousness, and then striving as best you can to actually practice what you preach. This is loving though, when done for the glory of God above all, and after that, for the well-being of mankind made in His image.

1 Cor. 6:9-11 condemns us all, but also shows that all sin can be washed away through the life, atoning death, and glorious resurrection of Jesus Christ, the very Son of God, God come in the flesh, redeeming all who repent and believe in Him from our sins and sinfulness, to be filled with His Spirit, which illuminates His Word the Bible, to serve God and His kingdom in true, joyous, holiness:

"Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God."

Churches should be robust in their doctrine and theology, applying God's Word to God's people in all of life, encouraging married couples to be fruitful and multiply, to fill the earth and subdue it for God's glory, as God commanded us as His image bearers, by our very natures, from the beginning, Gen. 1:26-28.

Faithful leaders in the Church, who are not sinless but are graciously gifted in heart, word, and conduct, called by God for service, must be under-shepherds to guide and lead the sheep (I Tim. 3:1-7), the people of God, those who trust in Christ as Lord and Savior. This requires both encouragement and rebuke, exhortation as well as consolation.

Sadly, the leaders in churches today are often ill-equipped, or have false motives altogether, or are simply lacking the gifting, despite best intentions, to lead. Study of God's Word and gifting by the Spirit is necessary, as Ephesians 4 and many other passages show, and common sense testifies.

As spiritual, moral, and cultural decay is all around us, and many of our churches have acclimated to these debaucheries and foolish thoughts and practices rather than warned against them, by proclaiming the truth in love, backed up by faithful (though not sinless) lives showing the good fruit of living according to God's Truth -- many have left the Church, or settled for poor churches and poor leadership. Some simply have not known that there is something better. A better way.

Well, there is. We can look to better, earlier times in our nation's history, and of our forefathers in the faith, found in nations all over the world, who taught and lived as faithful Christians far better than any of us today. Their doctrine was hard, firm, certain, but their love was fierce, their loyalty to God and His people sure, and their fruitfulness and productivity for good overflowing. But all of this is revealed in the Bible, the Word of God for us. We must be whole Bible Christians if we are to be true Christians, faithful Christians, productive, happy, and holy Christians. But the whole counsel of God's Word is rarely preached at all these days, and even when attempted, is sadly twisted to the destruction of both the preacher and the hearer.

To the world, and even to the Christian church in many cases today, real faithfulness and service to God will look like unbridled zeal, unhinged passion, fanaticism, harshness, unloving, etc. But that is only because a man leading his wife and children in love, teaching and catechizing them in the Bible, providing for them with hard work, being faithful to his wife and not sleeping around, disciplining his children with spankings when they sin to show them the righteous way, loving them enough to not let them continue down a wicked path, is almost non-existent even among Christians today, and something many ministers will claim is "too harsh" or "too rigid". Yet, this ALONE produces the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those trained by it, as Hebrews 12:7-11 says.

Mature, godly, happy women look like Titus 2, "reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things — that they admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed."

This, too, even among Evangelical churches today, is something they would be embarrassed to preach on, or would twist and contort to make it mean the opposite of what it says. And yet women are highly honored by God, and ought to be by man, when they truly live up to their high calling of womanhood, of being made in the image of God female. We see that glory, and praise, in the Proverbs 31 woman:

"Who can find a virtuous wife?
For her worth is far above rubies.
The heart of her husband safely trusts her;
So he will have no lack of gain.
She does him good and not evil
All the days of her life.
She seeks wool and flax,
And willingly works with her hands.
She is like the merchant ships,
She brings her food from afar.
She also rises while it is yet night,
And provides food for her household,
And a portion for her maidservants.
She considers a field and buys it;
From her profits she plants a vineyard.
She girds herself with strength,
And strengthens her arms.
She perceives that her merchandise is good,
And her lamp does not go out by night.
She stretches out her hands to the distaff,
And her hand holds the spindle.
She extends her hand to the poor,
Yes, she reaches out her hands to the needy.
She is not afraid of snow for her household,
For all her household is clothed with scarlet.

She makes tapestry for herself;
Her clothing is fine linen and purple.
Her husband is known in the gates,
When he sits among the elders of the land.
She makes linen garments and sells them,
And supplies sashes for the merchants.
Strength and honor are her clothing;
She shall rejoice in time to come.
She opens her mouth with wisdom,
And on her tongue is the law of kindness.
She watches over the ways of her household,
And does not eat the bread of idleness.
Her children rise up and call her blessed;
Her husband also, and he praises her:
“Many daughters have done well,
But you excel them all.”
Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing,
But a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised.
Give her of the fruit of her hands,
And let her own works praise her in the gates."

Nothing is freer than being renewed in what you are, as a man or woman made in God's image, as such, to serve Him by your masculine or feminine natures. For God is a good and just God, merciful, forgiving our sins as we repent of them and trust in Him, and strengthening us by His Spirit to follow Him into all righteousness once again.

The mutilation of the minds, bodies, and souls of mankind must stop. Today what is promoted or at least permitted down main street is the LGBTQ+ death cult agenda. It mixes witchcraft, self-hatred, self-mutilation, utter destruction of men and women as male and female, and does so militantly against others. They find "love" in idolatry and community of self-destruction and weakness, and hardly anyone loves them enough to tell them these hard truths, but also are sober enough to realize that many of these persons are not only dangerous to themselves, but seek to evangelize others, adults and even children, into their delusion.

Meanwhile, many churches stand idly by, because they've softened on sin, embracing heterosexual lusts rather than faithful, monogamous marriages, have had poor examples of fathers and grandfathers, mothers and grandmothers, and the generational rot has set in. Or they simply are too afraid to rock the boat for righteousness. Only by repenting of this, lamenting it, and by word and deed striving for righteousness and teaching these good truths in love to our children, will this be overcome, even though it will take several generations.

Our church, Heritage Reformed, recognizes these sober realities, and is committed to pursuing the long, multi-generational reform needed, rooted in people and place, a true community, fighting with joy to see righteousness pour forth from our hearts, homes, and communities once again. Our strong words and strong actions are only meant to root out sin, in our own hearts and in others, and for those who recognize their sin, to give the comforting words of God's grace in mercy and Christ to heal the wound of sin being ripped out, so that Christ and His righteousness can be knitted in to make us whole again.

Let us not go limping along any longer. Let us pursue in earnest the glorious picture seen in Isaiah 11, where righteous judgment, destruction of the wicked, and conversion of the repentant, yields peace and harmony around the holiness and Truth of God in all the nations of the earth, such that the wolf dwells with the lamb, the leopard lays with the young goat, the calf and the lion are together. And a little child leads them all:

"There shall come forth a Rod from the stem of Jesse,
And a Branch shall grow out of his roots.
The Spirit of the Lord shall rest upon Him,
The Spirit of wisdom and understanding,
The Spirit of counsel and might,
The Spirit of knowledge and of the fear of the Lord.

His delight is in the fear of the Lord,
And He shall not judge by the sight of His eyes,
Nor decide by the hearing of His ears;
But with righteousness He shall judge the poor,
And decide with equity for the meek of the earth;
He shall strike the earth with the rod of His mouth,
And with the breath of His lips He shall slay the wicked.
Righteousness shall be the belt of His loins,
And faithfulness the belt of His waist.

“The wolf also shall dwell with the lamb,
The leopard shall lie down with the young goat,
The calf and the young lion and the fatling together;
And a little child shall lead them.
The cow and the bear shall graze;
Their young ones shall lie down together;
And the lion shall eat straw like the ox.
The nursing child shall play by the cobra’s hole,
And the weaned child shall put his hand in the viper’s den.
They shall not hurt nor destroy in all My holy mountain,
For the earth shall be full of the knowledge of the Lord
As the waters cover the sea.

“And in that day there shall be a Root of Jesse,
Who shall stand as a banner to the people;
For the Gentiles shall seek Him,
And His resting place shall be glorious.”

Come and worship with us at Heritage. https://www.heritagereformedchurch.com/


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